About Me

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Hi my name is Roxanne and I am The Whatever Mom!


After trying to meet the demands of being the perfect mom, the perfect wife and the perfect friend ALL while serving perfect meals in my perfect home, I decided perfection is overrated.

My new philosophy: do whatever works for you! Sometimes crafting with the kids works for me. Sometimes lying on the couch works for me. Sometimes yoga pants and a stained t-shirt works for me and other times a nice clean outfit works for me. Most often a glass of wine and adult conversation works for me!

What doesn’t work for me is keeping up with appearances and judging other moms. We all make tough decisions as parents. I know parenting twins is hard enough for me without a jury of my peers pointing out my flaws, or critiquing what I’m feeding my kids, or whether or not I let them watch TV.

Whatever… we’re all moms! The End.

So if you’re in need of a safe place to feel comfortable as a mom- come on in! I could use the company!


The Whatever Mom is a full time wife and twin mama living on coffee and wine. She enjoys the pure rush of cleaning the potty between loads of laundry. It is her dream that moms everywhere accept and embrace the Whatever Mom philosophy which can be found here.

Find more from Roxanne at Hudson Valley Parent and at Masshole Mommy

Mass Hole Mommy

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